Women in Modern-Day Chinese Society

Women in Modern-Day Chinese Society

[Preface]

This is my Toastmaster Communication Program number 9 speech (Persuade with Power) at the SpeakerEasy@SunBeijing club.

[Text]

[prop: Show campaign material "Hillary Clinton for President: Unleashing American Innovation" mailed to my Campbell, California home.]

Dear fellow Toastmasters and guests, I answered questions a few times from friends here discussing the possibility of Hillary Clinton becoming the President of the United States. After addressing the questions, I often turned around and asked about the possibility of a woman President for China, and when that might be? Each time, I got a blank face without any conviction of that possibility in the foreseeable future. This leads to my topic today "Women in Modern-Day Chinese Society."

How many of you went to see the 2008 Beijing Auto Expo? Many told me that it is a show where you can see many beautiful women showing off their flesh. I can close my eyes and imagine the feeding frenzy of those eyeballs. This situation is really pathetic to me. We have bad TV influences and serious stereotyping of women in China. Women are seen as beautiful and subservient objects.

Now let us look at where women have their influences in the modern Chinese society. According to the statistics in Women in Politics 2007, the National People's Congress in China has about 20% women out of the 3000 or so members. This percentage is actually higher than the 16% in the United States Congress. Do women in China really have this sort of influence? I have serious reservations.

Another statistic might reflect better the reality for us. According to an article at the conclusion of the Chinese Communist Party's 17th Party Congress in South China Morning Post October 22, 2007, there are 13 women in the Central Committee among the 204 full members this year, compared with five among the 198 full members in 2002. In five years, we moved from 2.5 percent to 6.5 percent in women representation. Is this progress fast enough?

What should be a reasonable goal for changing this situation? Women should not be just the decoration of our society, and women should not be just beautiful objects appreciated by men and by the society as a whole. Something has to change.

We should not aim to switch roles, but to expand the role of women in general. The participation of women does not mean the replacement of men. Women should not be content at being patronized, for example, getting an extra day of vacation every year. What we want is equal opportunity and equal pay for equal work.

What is the downside if we don't get engaged? Remember that half of the people's power comes from women. We'll lose half of the collective power and wisdom, and it is a huge loss. Besides, there cannot be a harmonious society when our women cannot develop fully and have their aspirations fulfilled, especially when they see women in other societies participate in all aspects of the social, economical and political processes.

What can you do to lead the changes? First, get women educated, and make sure that little girls get the same opportunities to get educated as their counterparts. Second, be a pioneer in engineering, medicine, management, politics and all other walks of life. Third, lend mutual support to women in need. Speak out in appropriate venues and be a role model. Lastly, boycott activities and events that further the stereotyping of women such as the 2008 Beijing Auto Expo.

You must have a woman close to your heart, your sister, your daughter, or your mother. They all deserve the same opportunity to fulfill their dreams and aspirations. They should become full partners in our society. What should we all, women and men, do? Get women educated, participate, offer support, speak out, and lead the changes.

Bring Your Own Chopsticks! Save Our Forest!

Bring Your Own Chopsticks! Save Our Forest!

2008 Worldwide Volunteer Week
Sun Microsystems Beijing Engineering Research Institute

On May 8, 2008, ten volunteers from Sun China Engineering Research Institute together with two helpers from Greenpeace China held an activity named "Bring Your Own Chopsticks! Save Our Forest!" In China, there are a lot of restaurants that provide disposable chopsticks to customers. We have to cut down many trees to make disposable chopsticks. We need to protect our forest and our environment. We need to persuade restaurants that provide people with disposable chopsticks not to do that. We need to encourage people to refuse to use the disposable chopsticks. Bring Your Own Chopsticks! Save Our Forest!

In this event, our venue was the biggest cafeteria in the office building complex where Sun employees work. It is relevant to our campaign. During the 3-hour event, about 2000 people came to lunch and had to walk by our booth and bench. They could see the Sun logo and banner on the wall and Greenpeace banner surrounding the bench.

We successfully attracted more than 600 people to stop by and listen to what we had to say. We got 350 stickers/signatures promising not to use the disposable chopsticks in the future.

A Finnish TV station heard about and came to this event. Our Sun employee Paul Lee took part of their interview explaining the activity and also explaining Sun's worldwide volunteer week. All volunteers worked enthusiastically with the crowd to bring the environmental awareness into focus, and to encourage them to take actions to protect our forest.

We feel proud to be involved and proud to be Sun employees leading this effort in China.

[N.B.]
I wrote this report together with my good friend Jian Li who took the initiative to start this project a month ago. It is an opportunity to join him and to promulgate this idea and initiative. I treasure this association with him very much since it is precious for me to see this effort in the fast-moving Chinese society. With his permission, I included this in my blog.

Top 5 Impressions of my Nagoya Trip

I flew to Nagoya, Japan, Friday May 2 to meet and join a Taiwan tour group there. I waited for 3 hours and in the meantime, I took a tour of the sky deck and ordered a simple Japanese lunch with awkward pointing, hand gestures, and broken Japanese. It was my first trip to Japan. It was a bit weird since the trip was not to Tokyo, Osaka, or Kyoto. I started to have my first impressions of Japan from the mountainous region of Japan near Nagoya. It was a not-so-rushed trip that ended with a good hot springs overnight stay. I picked out 5 pictures to go with my top 5 impressions. These days I have blogging in mind when I take pictures ;-). The tour ended late Tuesday May 6, so I stayed at a Comfort Inn next to the airport to catch an Air China flight back the next day.

[Left-Sided Society]
People walk on the left side and pass from the right. I noticed this first in the airport. This tendency became quite noticeable later. Here is the tour bus I rode in for this trip. You boarded from the left and the driver sat on the right. I was on the right side of the bus, and watching cars and buses whizzing by from the right took a day to get used to. I still walked on the wrong side of the street towards the end of the trip.





[Japanese Bicycles]
There are certainly not as many bicycles as compared to China. But there are some and they are truly used for transportation, not limited to mostly sports in the States.
The bicycles are quite sturdy in construction and relative well maintained. The most nostalgic part for me is the small headlamp next to the front wheel, which you can flip to clip on the tire, and power it while you are propelling yourself in the evening. I don't see these too often nowadays in the US or in China.




[Bring Your Own Trash Home]
I am favorably impressed with the cleanness of the places I went - service plazas along the highway, city streets, national parks, and country train stations, to name just a few. Things are orderly and people are genuinely courteous. I bought a few apples as I usually do in all my trips for added vegetable and fruit regiments. A good-sized sweet crunchy apple cost me about $1 each. I had to absorb my own sticker shock.
I skipped a small banana, which cost about $1.50. I would get my potassium later in Beijing, I thought.
At one point in a national park in the mountains, I was annoyed at not easily finding garbage cans. And then I realized that it is a recommended practice to take your trash home, as witnessed by this information/guide near the park entrance. I suppose this is the ultimate goal to deal with trash generated by the tourists. I am impressed. Obviously this works for the most part, since the surrounding is fairly clean. I took mine to the hotel for disposals.

[Wedding Chapel for Rent]
I guess that the wedding business is also big in Japan. In Beijing, you see package deals for newlywed photos in the shopping malls, and you wonder how young people can afford to do all this without going broke.
In this wedding chapel that is built next to the hotel where I stayed, there is a very small area for the worship crowd, just enough for picture-taking. I suppose that in Japan, you don't need to go to the real church to find a time slot if you wish to have a "Western-style" ceremony included. This could be a profitable business idea in China. Call a priest-like justice of the peace to witness your wedding in this hotel-owned chapel next time you are thinking about getting married.
[High-Tech Toilet]
What's in a toilet, you think? As long as it is functional and clean, I would not ask for more. Four out of the five hotels I stayed in had the kind of "warmer/shower toilet" shown here. You can program it to warm your butt ;-), and it can do two forms of water squirting (shower and bidet) at your convenience. I had to play with both to figure out the difference, since words and pictures are only clues for me. So, where are we going with the advanced toilets?

Who We Are and What We Are

Who We Are and What We Are

[Preface]

This is my Toastmaster communication program No. 10 speech (inspire your audience) at the SpeakerEasy@SunBeijing club. I include this in my blog because I feel that the materialistic pressure is so high around me, and I have to cry out loud to help my inner self to get some fresh air. "What We Are" is so overwhelming in Beijing and other parts of China. The air is so stifling and we need badly the prophetic voices to develop the spiritual side of ourselves in modern-day China.

[Opening]

I would like to start my speech with an anecdote. About a year ago, I was meeting my wife outside of the Chinese Customs in the Beijing airport. She must have flown on a Boeing Jumbo 747, because there were many people coming out. While I was waiting, I saw the United Airlines flight attendants coming out. To my surprise, the guy next to me spoke to his friend this way, "See those ugly and old flight attendants? United Airlines sends the worst crew to China." It was unsettling to me, and I had to mumble a few words to him to the effect that United Airlines cannot let people go simply because they get old. This leads to my talk today about "Who We Are and What We Are".

[Body]
*We are not created equal*

We are all different and we are all gifted differently. Don't fool ourselves that we are equal. We are *NOT* created equal. What we might provide is equal opportunity to all. To the disadvantaged, we make sure that we give them fair chances to compete and survive. Sometimes, we even need to make special efforts to accommodate groups that need help. To the stronger and more gifted, practice modesty and humility, be kind and be gentle. This defines civilization to me. Thus, to me, what we are is not something we judge ourselves. Who we are is what I use to judge ourselves.

*Who we are*

The very pride and dignity of each individual is derived from our attitude and from being who we are. It is not the work we do. The work we do neither makes us worth more, nor makes us worth less. The beauty and worth of each of us is within us, and it is how we strive to be a better person in the family, community, and society. We compare ourselves against who we were yesterday. Are we making good use of our gift to be a better person in the many hats we wear such as a student, a parent, or an engineer? We should be conscientious of the fact that we respect effort and we pay less attention to the result.

*Toward others*

We should not judge others based on age, physical characteristics, nor gender. We should not patronize and protect for the sake of protection; instead, we should instill self-confidence and pride in others. For others to respect us, we must respect others first. Have faith in human nature and its potential. Make sure that we share the bright side of our human nature, not the dark side of ourselves.

*Toward oneself*

Our work is sacred. We should not feel lowly because of our work or social status. As a matter of fact, I heard my favorite reading again a few months ago. "If anyone was unwilling to work, neither should that one eat," from St. Paul's Second Letter to the Thessalonians in the New Testament. Working with your hands, head, and sweat is always something to be respected. Our respect for others, our effort, our integrity, and our responsibilities define who we are.

[Closing]

In closing, I suggest that we strip off and ignore gadgets and properties that make us feel good and proud. Forget about the titles we might have. Look deep inside ourselves. Are we genuine, true to ourselves, kind to others? Although we might not be gifted at all things we wish to be good at, do we have the persistence, coolness, and open-mindedness to face the world one day at a time? Be proud of who we are, don't get confused by what we are. And never get bothered by what we are not. We are all beautiful and truthful inside. Make sure that we nurture that every day.
Next time when you see the United Airlines flight attendants, don't write them off so quickly. Think how they show you the safety regulations and how to use the oxygen mask. Think that they serve you drinks and meals. They work with their hands and pride, and they are decent individuals who deserve their paychecks just like we do. Never judge them again by their outward appearances, especially their age. They are not beautiful and subservient objects for us to fantasize about. Shame on you if you still think that way.

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Non-profit Organizations to Unleash People Power

I talked about my flying hobby and wanted to come back to look at the non-profit organizations in the context of Chinese modernization.

The best equivalent of the non-profit in China is the non-government organization (NGO). In China, the government seems to be the criterion to delineate everything. And in the US, the 'profit' seems to be the criterion ;-).

In China, it is quite cumbersome to start an NGO entity. It is like starting a new enterprise needing big money and structure. Government leaders and the elites cannot quite trust that people can manage themselves and innovate in the collective sense. In a way, this is true. It is a difficult thing to trust people if they are never educated and trained to conduct themselves independently. To work with others and to be governed by rules and laws takes practice and takes time.

As parents, we cannot prohibit babies from walking for fear that they'll fall. We have to let them try and fall and hurt themselves at times. This is the only way they'll learn to stand up and walk by themselves. A parent watches on the side to help them and comfort them, and sometimes teach and discipline them as the circumstances may call for. It is in faith that we believe that we shall not be in a vicious cycle and that our children can never succeed to stand up on their own.

I read one quote from an interview with someone who went through the Cultural Revolution in the 70's. The man said that the net effect of the Cultural Revolution is that no one can longer trust anybody anymore. It was food for thought. If that's true, this was a deeply wounded people and nation. Fortunately, younger generations grow up and have a chance to shake off that burden and gain confidence and trust again in personal relationships. They will be able to build up a new community. The collective power can then be unleashed to serve the common good of mankind.

The line between personal freedom and complete chaos in the society is self-rule, respect, and awareness of the common good. The law and regulations are there to guarantee order and fairness. The lawmakers and the enforcers of the laws cannot be the same entity for obvious reasons; when necessary, the interpreters of the laws interpret and they have to be completely independent of the aforementioned entities.

Similar to many titles in the computer trade books, one day I would really like to see the book and the action entitled "People Power Unleashed" in China.

English with an American Corporate Accent - 001

I was in Los Angeles for a business meeting this past March. The three-day meetings tested my endurance and adjustment to jet lag.

Since I had to ask to my non-native English-speaking colleagues from time to time for the subtle meanings of the word/phrase usages, I jotted down some of them to share with those who might be interested. It works best if you can find a native speaker with exposure to corporate America to elaborate on the finer points that I cannot cover well here.

• Put those projects in your list on the parking lot for now. [Put them on hold to wait and see.]
• That's skunk work to me. [That's labor-intensive work and is not too rewarding.]
• We are going to fiddle with the schedule in real time. [We are going to do the adjustment for the schedule on the fly.]
• Are you ready for prime time? [Are you ready for the real presentation?]
• Now, I see a perfect storm developing in that project. [The project is going to see lots of troubles soon.]
• Other than a few expected speed bumps we'll hit, this project should be easy to execute. [We expect to run into a few obstacles here and there in the normal course of execution; it will slow us down a bit when that happens.]
• If you two don't talk right away, I see a train wreck in the horizon. [A train wreck is a big disaster.]
• They are throwing a curve ball to us. [A curve ball in baseball jargon is a ball with unpredictable direction and speed.]
• Let's reconvene at 10 of. [Let's meet again 10 to 3 o'clock. We assume that now is 2:50 p.m. and at times people use the minus scheme to align with the hour.]
• We'll have to see when this new initiative gains traction. [We have to see when this new initiative gets accepted and gets visibility.]

2008 Chinese New Year in Nanjing and Shanghai

Republic of China's Presidential Palace in Nanjing. This political reality is still there in Taiwan although many things have changed and evolved. People with a Taiwanese background should visit this interesting place. Nanjing was the capital of the Republic of China and this is why the Father of the Republic, Dr. Sun Yat-Sen, was buried in Nanjing.













Nanjing's entrance gate to Dr. Sun Yat-Sen's mausoleum. I really liked the unassuming sacrificial hall and the marble coffin.















One of the entrance gates for the Ming Dynasty Emperor's tomb in Nanjing. The first Ming emperor was buried here. The capital was later moved to Beijing.















Nanjing's QinHuai River night scene. This is a beautiful place, but a little bit too commercialized.











Nanjing's old city wall. It is the longest in China as far as city walls go; only a small portion remains today.













Nanjing's to-be-torn-down sign. The most eminent sign in the rapid modernization of China today. Talk about central planning here!











Shanghai's neighboring town ZhuJiaJiao's old post office. It is one of the first post offices, established about 100 years ago.











Shanghai's Nanjing East Road is a pedestrian-only street now. People enjoy shopping and strolling in the relaxed ambiance.










This guy was playing saxophone from the third floor for the street audiences. He was good at playing the popular oldies.